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Archive: October 2006

Someone asked me the other day, how do you get that first book finished?

The dream most people have about writing is as follows: one day you will pick up a pen and sit down at a large mahoney/oak/cherry desk in a secluded cabin in the woods/on the beachfront/next to a lake and you will start to jot down all the wonderful stories that have been swimming around in your head over the years. Of course as you write, the stories will come out onto the paper just like they are in your head. Witty dialogue, characters with true depth, and descriptions that brings the whole scene to life will flow from your fingertips. And every time you write you will be motivated and inspired and there will be music and a breathtaking Sunset/rainbow/snowcapped mountain in the background.

It’s a beautiful dream. ;-) And when you start writing your first book you can hold onto the dream for about a day. As you are pounding away, you suddenly realize the awful truth – you truly suck. Everything you write sounds like crap, you have no idea what the hell you are doing and you would rather be visiting the dentist/cleaning the toilet/getting a pap smear than banging your head against the keyboard as you try to get that first page/first chapter/first book done.

Now you have some choices to make:

1. You immediately begin drinking, a true and tried technique used by many writers over the centuries.

2. You give up and pretend it was all a bad, bad dream. A very popular choice according to the statistic floating around that out of all the people who start a book only 1% finish.

3. You decide to go against your better judgment and keep writing.

If you picked option number three you now have to deal with more unpleasant facts.  Writing is hard work, you have to write whether you feel inspired or not, and if you want to improve, you are going to have to get feedback about your work.

Writing your first book is really not unlike deciding to climb Mt. Everest. You have to train, you have to be slightly insane, and you have to just be damn stubborn to get to the top. Most importantly you must refuse to stop even when everything in you body and mind is screaming at you that it’s impossible and you can’t go on. But instead of sitting down and giving up, you take another step. And then another. You keep climbing the damn mountain. Why? Just because.  

As you keep pounding away on those pages family, work and life will infringe upon your time. You will convince yourself there are no hours left in the day for writing. But in spite of all that - you will write everyday. No matter what. Just because.

If you are a golfer, you golf. Chefs, cook. Writing is no different. Writers, write. You can talk about writing, think about writing, talk some more about writing, but the only thing that will get that damn book done is to put the words down on paper. Remember page one/chapter one/your first book are just some small steps on this very long journey you were foolish enough to begin.

The best advice I ever got — allow yourself to suck Most of the pressure you will feel while writing will come from within. You will want so desperately to be good at writing from the get go. But remember writing is no different than learning to ride a bike. You have to cut yourself a lot of slack, expect to fall on your ass at least a hundred times, and realize you will get better with lots of practice.

Now stop thinking, reading, talking about writing and go write. Go climb your own Everest and remember whatever happens get that first damn page/chapter/book done. Why? Just because.

Chaoscat writing as Samantha Storm - http://www.samanthastorm.com/
Eye of the Storm - Available Now!  http://www.newconceptspublishing.com/eyeofthestorm.htm
Murder, Mayhem & Mistletoe - coming Dec. ‘06 NCP

Weekend vacation

We are headed  to Universal Studios first on our whirlwind-weekend vacation adventure. 

Two doddering nuts, (DH and me) our daughter, who is weak from the just completing the first half of her chemo, and three live-wires.  Payton, as some may know, suffered from debilitating seizures his whole tiny life, (6 years) which left him with brain damage.  His sister, Paige, at two is learning concepts he hasn’t been able to grasp.  What Payton can grasp is how to twist Nana around his finger…and how to have the loudest and most constant voice any six-year-old ever dreamed of.  The baby, Parker, is the happiest baby I’ve ever seen, until he’s ridden in the car just one second too long and look out!

One of us forgot underpants, one forgot socks, Payton and Papa just came back to the room because Payton didn’t have his shoes on at the continental breakfast.  Nana picked Paige an outfit she’s out-grown.  But it’s early in the day…we can do better than that! 

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Great day

I’ve had a great night and day.  Had dinner with friends and today had lunch with more friends, great conversations with sexy men today and dreaming of what can be.  Okay, this is where it goes wrong.  All this fun concentrating on everything but my writing.  I’m with Carol. All of this has helped me procrastinate with my writing.  I’m so close yet so far in finishing my manuscript.  My idols Brit and Tina are a whirlwind of activity and I’m trying to catch up and mirror them.  I’m looking forward to next weeks martini night, sharing chapters about sex, brainstorming chapters that make me laugh, make me excited and make me can’t wait till my book is finished.  Did I procrastinate enough tonight, saving my weekend for writing.  Whew…think I did.  Isabella  

Take It Off

I’ve posted this on my author website, but thought I’d share the wealth so everyone can enjoy it.  My new cover for my ‘hot quickie’ for Triskelion’s Feverish Interlude Line.  Everyone keeps asking if I can change my last name to start with a Y instead of a G.  Sorry, folks, you’ll just have to fill in the blanks yourself…lol.

Tina Gerow
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Sexy, Snarky, Sensuous

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Fire Maiden - Coming June 2006 in eBook & September 2006 in Print from Triskelion Publishing
Knights of the Magical Realm:  Warriors Gone Wild - Anthology coming October 2006 in Print & in eBook from Triskelion
Stone Maiden - Available Now in Print & in eBook at Triskelion Publishing
Into a Dangerous Mind - Available Now at Triskelion Publishing
 

 

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